On a gloomy weather.
7/27/11 5:08 PM
Hi guys! It's currently raining now, not so hard, but it
is definitely raining.
These are the times when you just want to hide under your comforter, aircon on, hot chocolate by your side, and either watching a
chick-flick movie... or reading a good book. Well, that's what I'd do on a gloomy day. Haha!
Have you ever had that feeling that whenever you don't text this person for a day or two, you'd feel weird.. and you're
sooooo tempted to text him/her, even just for awhile? To satisfy the burning need to just talk to them?
It's pretty weird... to have that feeling, I mean. I'd never thought I'd get that feeling, and the anxiety to just give up the thing you guys are fighting over and just talk to them. To let them have the chance, to win on that stupid childish thing you guys are fighting for, just so you could talk to them. Maybe it's because it's been an habitual thing -
you texting each other, that even by the end of the day, without a text, or a short conversation, a smile, or ANYTHING AT ALL you'd feel as if something's wrong. Or maybe it's because you're starting to get attached to the person already, and starting to develop feelings for them. Hmm maybe maybe!
I've always had issues with people who become too attached with someone, and start yabbering about the "She's my life now"; "I can't live without her"; "She's everything"; crapload of it. Dunno, I guess you counter me by saying it's because I've never experienced that feeling yet so I don't know what you're talking about. Hmm
MAYBE YOU'RE RIGHT. But I assure you, I wouldn't be those type of girls who circle my life around my boyfriend, and choke them, and expect them to always have me there 24/7, and practically control their life.
Yeah, we'd be in a relationship, but that doesn't mean I would be keeping him from what he enjoys, and from what he does with his friends and family. If I do, it's as if I'm changing him... then what type of a bitch am I to say that I
love that person, when it turns out, I'm trying to change him after all, right? I'm not sure if I'm making sense anymore... But, that's what I think of it as. When you love someone,
you love them for WHO THEY ARE, so why should you control their life and stop them from doing things they enjoy? It's as if you're saying that you never really loved them at all. So yeah, I just don't get at times why they do that. Their 'I love yous' wouldn't make sense. If I actually become a girlfriend who's like
that, PLEASE do slap me and scream at my face. I'd appreciate it x93028493573847 :)
Another issue I actually have with is, PDA. I'm fine with couples holding hands, hugging, and all. But please, always do keep in mind,
YOU'RE IN A PUBLIC AREA. If it's just the two of you, then go ahead! Knock yourselves out. But if you're in a mall, or a party, or a family gathering... keep it G-rated. Respect on others please. It's really disturbing to see people do serious public displays of affection. I know you're in love, I know you guys can't get enough of each other... do it subtle then. Don't like it's just the two of you in the world, and just leave the other people in misery and awkward situation. Trust me,
it is NOT fun. Especially if it's the couple + a guy friend/girl friend = a.k.a. Third Wheel!!! Totally not fun if the couple is major PDA, and it's pretty obvious they can't keep their hands to themselves. It's as if you just want to bury yourself in a hole, and shout to them "LEAVE ME, IT'S FINE. GO DO YOUR BUSINESS" or you just simply want to walk faster and get away from the lovebirds. =))
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